🏛️ Cheatsheet: Stoic Philosophy for Modern Life

By Better Wise

One-page reference for the whole course. Sorted by module and lesson. Use it to look things up, not to learn them the first time.


1.1 Stoicism in Ten Minutes

What it is

Claim Reality
A philosophy of feeling nothing A philosophy of not being ruled by feelings
A set of rules to obey A set of practices to rehearse
Escapism or passivity Active engagement with what you can influence
"Just be positive" Realistic appraisal, then a chosen response
A religion A practical philosophy of character

What it is not: suppressing emotion, avoiding problems, pretending nothing matters, or a productivity hack.

Three anchors of the school

Anchor Meaning
Control Only your judgments and choices are truly yours
Character Virtue is the only genuine good
Rehearsal Prepare and review daily, not once

The three authors

Author Role in the course Signature idea
Epictetus Teacher, former slave Dichotomy of control, "it is not things but judgments"
Marcus Aurelius Emperor writing private notes Morning preparation, view from above, duty to the whole
Seneca Statesman and letter-writer Evening review, negative visualization, time as our scarcest resource

Note: Stoicism is a practice, like physical training. Reading about it changes nothing; doing the exercises changes the habit.


1.2 The Dichotomy of Control

The core split (Epictetus)

In my control Not in my control
My judgments Other people's opinions
My intentions and choices Outcomes and results
My effort and attention Reputation, weather, traffic
My response to events The events themselves
My character My body's health, aging, death
What I say and how I say it How it is received

The sorting exercise (2 minutes)

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